"A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words".

Dear Readers,

The Powerful Words of a Good Picture.

"A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words".

The above picture could tell us about a pleasant journey of a father and his child. But in reality, it could be also, it was actually the last pleasant journey of a father with his child.

Life will and never ever always be a bed of roses. There will be ups and downs. there will be lows and highs but it never should be there when a relationship or bond is brought to an end.

I consider This picture to be the last picture of a parent whose children were taken away from them. The people who took them away and brainwashed a parent's children to go against them. Made that parent a Person who looked like he was on death row. No one would understand the reason why he had to go through this pain. people only listen to one side of the story and will never listen to the other side of it. 

People have become so blind that he gave up on explaining to himself who is right and who was wrong. He spent many nights just sitting up, Crying his heart out wondering when or if he would ever see his kids again.

The question has become so difficult to answer in today's world because the only person who knows what the situation is then only we can understand what a parent and child go through in these unknown circumstances. 

We can just only speculate about the parent and child's feelings, based on the existing situation that was brought to light. what the relationship was like with each parent, what it might have been like growing up with the other parent, etc.

By default, we as parents love our children very much as our children love us back. Without a doubt, Therefore It is very much difficult and painful for the parent who continues to care about the child despite the child’s rejection of them. 

A parent may be able to find peace once they can honestly say to themselves that they have done what they believe was best, have made more than reasonable efforts at outreach/communication, and acted in the best interests of the child. but when someone brings in a barrier between the children and the parent, that is a total injustice.

Children have been told these days that either their father or mother whom they depend on, is separated from the child. that their parent has abandoned them and left.

Actually many times the exiled parent I could say make continuous efforts to make contact with the children, but the children who are in current custody parent blocks the phone and don't allow the children to speak to the father.

He remembers when his kids used to call him practically every day asking about anything but then now they aren't allowed to call him...

I think I speak for most parents who have been alienated...without their children, we are not hollow or what I can say, cold-hearted creatures. We just go through the emotions of everyday life just trying to find a purpose to exist. Most of us will keep our emotions bottled up because no one around us truly understands the level of pain that we go through. Many of us will contemplate suicide. Some will succeed.

That Parents name was smeared all over town, by unscrupulous characters, with false accusations, and now he has lost his children. Countless sleepless nights and nights where he cried himself to sleep. But he is still standing. They wanted to break Him. They want to break you.

Today, I may still only get a limited time or we say time is not on our side, but his bond with his children will be as strong as ever and as they get older they will develop more of a voice for themselves.

I have seen firsthand, a diabolical plan that was meant to push him out of the picture, they won't succeed with their plan as it will completely backfire and he will get his children back. With God on our side, The Father has nothing to worry about. There is hope for every alienated parent out there. Prayer is very important. I wish such pain Never will exist. But it does. Learning to stand above it and push forward is crucial.

It is tempting to hold on to hope for reconciliation for a meaningful contact, but holding on commits you to pain and rejection each time Father's Day, Birthday, Christmas, or any other traditional family celebration comes around. It may be easier to accept what you cannot control, and trust that in time, whatever pain/injury the child is feeling normalize to the point where they will once again want to have a relationship with you.

Please do not bottle up your emotions. it will really kill you, You have to have a healthy mind in order to stay in the fight to face your opponents My heart hurts for each and every parent who has to stay without their children. I hope that one day in my lifetime things will change where in children will have a chance to be with both their parents.

I will Pray for you all.

God Bless You All...

Jacob M