The Consequences of Adultery:- Wherein Some People Just Don't Care. Chapter 1

The Consequences of Adultery in Family 

[Solutions you can take to reduce the Pain, Torment, Depression, Anxiety, etc] 

Chapter 1

Dear Readers,

Adultery or cheating is like a violent storm. When the storm arrives it literally sucks you up in the cone of the tornado, and to make matters worse, you and everyone else, even the children are thrown in many different directions. However, when Adultery or what we say today which is infidelity is discovered, there are things you can do to ease the likelihood of permanent injury.

It is also mentioned as one of the 10 commandments "thou shall not commit adultery". But then again no one cares, even though some people consider themselves God-fearing people. 

Well, there will be My Chapters every Monday with news, views & Solutions for Adultery or Cheating.

Chapter 1

1. You Can never ever say adultery is harmless or a victimless crime. Many times the people who fall prey cannot say a trap, because there is no such thing as a choice, but it’s a decision one takes to behave adulterously. One himself or herself sometimes convinces themselves that adultery is harmless, that should their illicit relationship be discovered, the people who get hurt are only one side of the party and that’s either the husband or the wife or the committed person to the relationship. 

Now the funny part is, that a person who commits adultery for self-serving or selfish reasons often blames the other, his or her legitimate partner for cheating. The momentous discovery of the affair,’ in the mind of the adulterer, he or she considers there are no victims. Ideally, the fault always comes on the legitimate partner, why is that, always the legitimate partner, always at fault? What are the reasons (she/he wouldn’t have sex, not communicate nicely, spend money irresponsibly, lust etc.). The truth is otherwise always bitter; the only person to blame for the cheating or adulterer is the philanderer, or what we can say is the person who is just out to fulfil their own greed, wherein they just don’t care who gets hurt. But Everyone else in the family, may it be not them only, but also members and friends, get hurt. This is unacceptable… It hurts it really hurts when the actual victim feels that his adulterous partner was having good fun with someone who was better than him...

Solutions to avoid or reduce the risk of Pain: Well how do I put it, ok. Well if the person who committed the horrendous, horrific Scenario should acknowledge that he or she is 100% responsible for his or her unwanted behaviour and acknowledge that his or her bad behaviour has negatively impacted everyone close to him or her. When the truth is recognized and acknowledged, it is much easier for individuals to process what happened and move forward.

Now again we will meet again next Monday for an exciting case of adultery one on one...

Byeee...