Why are Narcissists, Cowards?

Why are Narcissists, Cowards?

A Narcissist can be a Man or a Woman. a Husband or Wife. but eventually in the end they are just F****** losers. Sorry for my choice of words.

Because Narcissists like who they are, and they are aware that nobody would like who they are, if anybody knew the real them.

So they keep playing this wicked horrible chess game. Trying to win every satisfaction they so desperately desire. May it be Stealing, Glory, Money & SEX. Now their new game is Children...Sending victim after victim at their disposal. Trying to be the best while not letting anyone know they betrayed them.

They find pawns who would add Fuel to the fire...

Once someone discovers the betrayal. Such as being used. Cheated on, Lied to. The narcissist turns into a coward and either goes into full defense mode. Or simply ghosts n disappears. They won't stand in front of the victim.

They won't own up to their shit because they are afraid of not being Liked & Hated.

They are cowards because they are faking everything. When it comes to a confrontation that they aren't winning they will immediately retreat or start yelling. They don't really know how much they have dug their own Grave. 

Why are Narcissists, Cowards? My answer is my opinion based on my experience.

Narcissists are cowards because they fear exposure. They are willing to go to any lengths to protect that nothingness. They are too cowardly to stand and take life as it comes. They'd even go to an extent and sleep with the enemy. The good, the bad, and the ugly. They can only take the good. They will always push their victims away up against a wall and portray an awesome one-sided story to the public saying that their victim, is the fault for everything. 

Why doesn't the Victim get his side of the story out? Why hasn't anyone listened to him when she is the real person to be blamed for. 

There was a time in my life I felt something was wrong with the person who is a Narcissist in our lives. In a flash of a second, I found out what type of person she was. A crooked person that she was. never expected she would do bad things in life which would affect us all. she just gave us poison when we thought it was a protein juice...

SAD......

And even then, when you finally understand the game from all angles and get the chance to turn the predator into the prey, you make the choice not to. Because they can only play the game with those who have no concept of malevolence.

Why we should be so brave? 

In my experience, Narcissists do often demonstrate Cowardice, in the following sense.

When they look for targets to “bring down" for their Narcissistic supply — whether it be trying to kill the target's good mood, good name, good friends, good health, or anything else the target has going well for them, Narcissists generally seek out targets who they consider to be 

Weak, or

Naive, or

Unwilling to stand up for themselves, or simply can't be bothered to give the Narcissist their airtime and so are unlikely to strike back.

Or perhaps, the Narcissist does whatever they are doing discreetly, for the victim does not see what they are doing, so the Narcissist carries on unscathed.

Either way, Narcissists generally victimize people who are just minding their own business, people who never instigated a threat against them.

And when people do instigate credible threats against the Narcissist, they are usually sent running before you can count to number three.

Narcissists don't like a real conflict, they only like their carefully created, framed, and chosen ones. They fear genuine conflict like it's nobody's business, they are paralyzed by it, and they literally wet their pants. I've seen it time and time again.

Unfortunately, these are the vast minority, but I would encourage all victims to make a willful effort to release their toxic ways, even if it takes years of trying, therapy, etc.

SO WITH THAT BEING SAID NARCISSISTS ARE MISERABLE, MANIPULATIVE AND THE BIGGEST COWARDS IN THE WORLD!!!!! THEY HAVE NO PROBLEM MANIPULATING / ABUSING AND DESTROYING ANYONE THAT TRIES TO MAKE THEM ACCOUNTABLE FOR ANY MISTAKE!!!! …. 

YOU WILL BE BLAMED FOR YOUR OWN MISTAKES AND THEIRS AS WELL.

Narcissists

Be Warned...

NEVER TAKE THE VICTIM OR ESPECIALLY A EMPATH FOR GRANTED... 

                                            - Jacob M