"Article: The Silent Wounds of Narcissistic Abuse..."

 

Narcissistic abuse leaves scars that are not always visible, yet they run deep within the mind and heart of the survivor. A staggering percentage of people who have been in a relationship with a narcissist end up with PTSD. What makes this form of abuse so devastating, even when physical violence is absent, is the relentless emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and degradation that chips away at the victim’s sense of self.

Survivors of narcissistic abuse often grapple with low self-esteem, anxiety, insomnia, flashbacks, and even physical pain long after the relationship ends. Despite this, the narcissistic abuser moves on quickly, seemingly unaffected, leaving their victim to pick up the pieces. The imbalance in recovery can feel like a second form of betrayal—the abuser is fine while the survivor is left grappling with the traumatic aftermath.

Narcissists excel at creating a dynamic where the survivor doubts their worth and reality. This ongoing emotional assault creates a prison of self-doubt. Victims might wonder if they were truly the problem or if they could have done something different. But narcissistic abuse is designed to make the survivor question themselves when in reality, they were being conditioned to lose their sense of identity.

How does one heal from such trauma? Recovery involves learning to trust again—not only others but also oneself. It’s about recognizing that the abuse wasn’t their fault and working through the complex emotions of betrayal, hurt, and fear. Support groups, therapy, and reconnecting with loved ones are crucial steps. Time does not necessarily heal all wounds, but understanding the abuse and taking steps toward self-love can bring survivors closer to reclaiming their lives...

God Bless Us All...

Jacob M