**The Unseen Battle: How Narcissists Use Children as Weapons**

Narcissistic abuse leaves scars that many will never see, but for parents who’ve been separated from their children through manipulation, the pain is profound. It’s one thing to endure the lies and tactics of a narcissist yourself, but when they use your own children against you, the heartbreak is beyond words. 

My son once stood by me, and my daughter used to send me messages—small moments that reminded me of the bond we shared. Now, those connections have faded, stolen by the manipulation of a narcissist. Is it fair? Absolutely not. But in the midst of this injustice, I’ve realized that fighting back with anger or revenge won’t heal the damage done. 

Instead, I choose a different path. I place my trust in God, knowing that He sees my pain. I’ve shed my tears and cried out, and I know He has heard me. One day, I believe with all my heart that the truth will be revealed, and my children will know the real me. Until then, I choose to carry this burden with faith. 

I will carry His cross, just as Christ did because I trust in the greater plan. It’s not revenge I seek but peace, knowing that God walks beside me, strengthening me when I feel weak. Though this journey is painful, I carry on with faith, believing that goodness will prevail in the end.

God Bless Us all…

I pray that all Narcissistic abused survivors find peace and that Narcissists be forgiven. For God is with us. 

Jacob M