"The Fatal Push: How Narcissists Drive People to Suicide"

Every day, we hear the heartbreaking news: men and women take their own lives, leaving behind shattered families and communities. The reasons are often labelled as depression, stress, or mental illness, but beneath these labels lies a darker truth. What we rarely discuss is how people in their lives — narcissists, abusers, and enablers — often push these individuals to the brink, ultimately driving them to make that tragic choice.

The Common Thread: Narcissistic Abuse

What drives someone to take their life? It’s not just internal struggles. There’s often an external force—someone who instigates, abuses, coerces and aggravates the pain until there’s nothing left but despair. Time and time again, we find a common denominator in these tragedies: the narcissist.

Narcissists thrive on control and manipulation, weaving webs of deceit, gaslighting, and constant emotional abuse. They break down their victims piece by piece, convincing them that they are worthless and incapable. Yet, when tragedy strikes, society rarely holds these narcissists accountable. Instead, they’re seen as "angels"—innocent bystanders who couldn’t possibly be responsible for such horrors.

Why Do Narcissists Always Win?

The unsettling reality is that narcissists often "win" because they play their role to perfection. Outwardly, they appear charming, well-spoken, and empathetic. Their abuse is carefully hidden, buried beneath layers of manipulation that make the victim look unstable while they appear saintly. When their victims finally break, society looks at the surface: they see a man or woman who "couldn't handle life," rather than someone who was systematically driven to that breaking point.

The truth is, that people don’t see narcissists for what they are because they don’t want to. It’s easier to believe in their façade, to ignore the suffering of the victim, because holding the narcissist accountable would mean questioning a system that protects them. So, the cycle continues. Victims are pushed to the edge, left to face the battle alone, and when they can no longer fight, they are forgotten—while the narcissist walks away unscathed, still seen as sweet and innocent.

The Real Problem: Enablers Who Turn a Blind Eye

Even more frustrating is when those around the victim—their family, friends, or community—side with the narcissist. Instead of helping the victim escape their torment, these enablers gaslight them further, pushing them up the wall until there’s no way out. The message is clear: you’re the problem, not them.

Take, for example, a father-in-law who scolds his son-in-law for being too "uptight," saying, "You were raised by your parents to not party enough." The implication is that the son-in-law is inadequate, and too rigid for the world around him. Yet, that same father-in-law would never dare question his own daughter’s infidelity, her manipulation, or her role in driving her husband to the brink. The hypocrisy is palpable, but the victim is left to bear the burden alone.

 Why Society Fails to Hold Narcissists Accountable

Why are narcissists not held accountable? Because society has a skewed perception of what abuse looks like. We expect abuse to be loud, violent, and obvious. But narcissistic abuse is subtle. It’s the quiet, insidious kind that leaves no physical scars but destroys lives nonetheless. People turn a blind eye because it’s easier to believe the victim is just overreacting. It’s easier to think the narcissist, with their charm and charisma, is innocent. They’re "sweet as angels," while the victim is portrayed as unstable or weak.

But until we start recognizing narcissistic abuse for what it is, until we begin holding narcissists accountable, more lives will be lost. These victims don’t die because they’re weak; they die because they were pushed to the edge, tormented by those whom society refuses to see as the true villains.

Narcissistic Abuse Must Stop!!!

Narcissists Have To Be Made Accountable for the Deaths!!!

No Man or No Woman should die, and No Child should be abandoned or orphaned.

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God Save Us All...

Jacob M